Secondary Wishes
In life, we all have our hopes and desires. Some are still vague to us, some are clear and some are somewhere...
Category: Motivational Message
Motivational Messages
Separating Truth
The truth exists on many levels. The lowest of these levels is simple information and the highest is pure understanding. In between...
Tribal Trust
There’s a level of trust that will never rust; a deeper sense of interpersonal reliance that, no matter what happens, always remains....
Range of Control
Where we place our focus determines, in part, whether we have a frustrating life or a satisfying one. It’s that focus that...
Immobilizing Statements
We have a way of confusing our experiences with the truth, and that’s why we also speak about them as if they’re...
The Step to Take
We like each other best when we are balanced; when we are okay with who we are. In that state we don’t...
The Great Disturbance
A peaceful existence is the foundation of human happiness. Not that happiness is guaranteed when we establish that existence, but it has...
Forming Friendships
When someone talks about another, our focus will automatically be directed towards that other person. And we will automatically project what it...
Changing Frequency
We often automatically tune in on each other’s frequency. Whether we want to or not, and whether we’re aware of it or...
Healthy Range
We often consider some aspects of our existence as being good and others as being bad. But in reality it’s not these...
Looking at Both Sides
Everything has two sides; both a bright side and a shadow side. But when we look at something we seldom look at...
The Foundation of a Strong Mind
When it comes to strength of mind there is, not unlike outer and inner beauty, an appearance and an actual state. In...
Universal Balance
Balance is one of the fundamental laws of the universe. It applies to everything, either in the fact that it is balanced...
More Than Only Human
With what we say and think we keep ourselves and each other down, while we are capable of reaching loftier elevations when...
The Counter-Intuitive Answer
Love creates love. Pain creates pain. Neither of them ever goes unanswered. The emotional pain we inflict, whether it’s done consciously or...
Staying True
Our experiences have a way of changing the way we see and behave towards life. And it’s this change in view and...
Invisible Barriers
We are divided on many levels. The distinctions we perceive form invisible barriers that stand in between us, which prevent us from...
Flow of Thoughts
Thoughts are like water, forming a river passing by as they come and go. The more we let them freely flow the...
Looking the Other Way
When someone says something negative about another, that negativity may not be an aspect of that other person. Always determine the source...
Unsubstantiated Evidence
The stories in our heads have a way of becoming reality. Perhaps not in detail, but they do in a general sense....
Metaphorically Speaking
What goes on in the outside world, on a physical level, has a shape and an appearance. But what goes on in...
Higher Senses
You may not even realize it, but you have more senses than you think. The traditional senses, which include sight, sound, touch,...
Unguided Contemplation
When we contemplate, we don’t always do so consciously or by choice. Contemplation can namely also be triggered by what we experience....
Time to Change
When you alter your approach towards others, they will alter their approach towards you. This is true in a general fashion. In...
Closing in on the Moment
Awareness, as in being aware of your actions, is not something we automatically have or not; it’s something we build up over...
The Other Ego
When we think of ego, we often think about the characteristics of people who see themselves as more or better than others,...
Sincere Directions
Trust is a valuable thing. It’s the force that secures the bounds between us. It’s the spirit that makes us want to...
Fear and Understanding
Gaining new understanding is like entering a new reality. What we previously accepted to be our world of belief will shake on...
Purposely Mesmerized
Do you remember when you were a child and everything looked magical and amazing? That’s because everything was new and exciting. Our...
Unmasking the Masquerade
Vicious circles are sometimes just circles, but sometimes they are like snowballs becoming bigger and bigger as they roll down the slopes...
Conflicting Basic Needs
We have two basic needs that, when the circumstances are far from ideal, have the potential to contradict one another: the need...
Coming Together
In the old days, cultures were pretty isolated from each other. They had their own geographical location, and with it room to...
The Sequence of Events
There is a blind spot in our perception. We easily see what others do to us, but we seldom see what we...
The Power of Appreciation
Solutions are often counterintuitive. When we experience a problem, the first thing we do is complain about it. Maybe not by expressing...
Predators and Prey
On a psychological level we’re all constantly in a dance with one another. When one takes a step forwards, the other automatically...
Connecting Love
Sometimes it seems as if we’re giving too much love, that all the love we give doesn’t seem to be enough or...
Inner Economics
Under undistorted circumstances, helping someone brings its own rewards. That reward being feeling good about yourself. This inner bonus is part of...
Changing Behavioral Patterns
We all form behavioral patterns based on our personal situation and history. In a way they develop to make life easier for...
Emotional Runaways
When we run away from something we often get lost. Whether it’s an unwanted situation, convictions that no longer make sense or...
Opening New Options
At any moment in time there are two doors standing before you to choose from. One door leads to a room with...
Emotional Barriers
Change is often hard. Especially when it concerns real and lasting change; the change that requires us to let go of something...
Fears from the Past
Don’t project your fears from the past onto your current status quo. Fear has a way of carrying itself over into new...
Cultural Possibilities
Have you ever wondered about what your life would look like if you we’re born somewhere else? Or in different times? Or...