Secondary Wishes
In life, we all have our hopes and desires. Some are still vague to us, some are clear and some are somewhere...
Motivational Messages
· by Jerry Corstens · 20 Sep, 2017
In life, we all have our hopes and desires. Some are still vague to us, some are clear and some are somewhere...
· by Jerry Corstens · 23 Aug, 2017
The truth exists on many levels. The lowest of these levels is simple information and the highest is pure understanding. In between...
· by Jerry Corstens · 26 Jul, 2017
There’s a level of trust that will never rust; a deeper sense of interpersonal reliance that, no matter what happens, always remains....
· by Jerry Corstens · 26 Apr, 2017
Where we place our focus determines, in part, whether we have a frustrating life or a satisfying one. It’s that focus that...
· by Jerry Corstens · 29 Mar, 2017
We have a way of confusing our experiences with the truth, and that’s why we also speak about them as if they’re...
· by Jerry Corstens · 27 Feb, 2017
We like each other best when we are balanced; when we are okay with who we are. In that state we don’t...
· by Jerry Corstens · 14 Feb, 2017
A peaceful existence is the foundation of human happiness. Not that happiness is guaranteed when we establish that existence, but it has...
· by Jerry Corstens · 30 Dec, 2016
When someone talks about another, our focus will automatically be directed towards that other person. And we will automatically project what it...
· by Jerry Corstens · 10 Dec, 2016
We often automatically tune in on each other’s frequency. Whether we want to or not, and whether we’re aware of it or...
· by Jerry Corstens · 8 Nov, 2016
We often consider some aspects of our existence as being good and others as being bad. But in reality it’s not these...
· by Jerry Corstens · 2 Oct, 2016
Everything has two sides; both a bright side and a shadow side. But when we look at something we seldom look at...
· by Jerry Corstens · 17 Sep, 2016
When it comes to strength of mind there is, not unlike outer and inner beauty, an appearance and an actual state. In...
· by Jerry Corstens · 4 Aug, 2016
Balance is one of the fundamental laws of the universe. It applies to everything, either in the fact that it is balanced...
· by Jerry Corstens · 20 Jun, 2016
With what we say and think we keep ourselves and each other down, while we are capable of reaching loftier elevations when...
· by Jerry Corstens · 9 May, 2016
Love creates love. Pain creates pain. Neither of them ever goes unanswered. The emotional pain we inflict, whether it’s done consciously or...
· by Jerry Corstens · 18 Apr, 2016
Our experiences have a way of changing the way we see and behave towards life. And it’s this change in view and...
· by Jerry Corstens · 6 Mar, 2016
We are divided on many levels. The distinctions we perceive form invisible barriers that stand in between us, which prevent us from...
· by Jerry Corstens · 3 Feb, 2016
Thoughts are like water, forming a river passing by as they come and go. The more we let them freely flow the...
· by Jerry Corstens · 23 Jan, 2016
When someone says something negative about another, that negativity may not be an aspect of that other person. Always determine the source...
· by Jerry Corstens · 9 Jan, 2016
The stories in our heads have a way of becoming reality. Perhaps not in detail, but they do in a general sense....
· by Jerry Corstens · 27 Nov, 2015
What goes on in the outside world, on a physical level, has a shape and an appearance. But what goes on in...
· by Jerry Corstens · 25 Oct, 2015
You may not even realize it, but you have more senses than you think. The traditional senses, which include sight, sound, touch,...
· by Jerry Corstens · 21 Aug, 2015
When we contemplate, we don’t always do so consciously or by choice. Contemplation can namely also be triggered by what we experience....
· by Jerry Corstens · 15 Jul, 2015
When you alter your approach towards others, they will alter their approach towards you. This is true in a general fashion. In...
· by Jerry Corstens · 19 May, 2015
Awareness, as in being aware of your actions, is not something we automatically have or not; it’s something we build up over...
· by Jerry Corstens · 21 Apr, 2015
When we think of ego, we often think about the characteristics of people who see themselves as more or better than others,...
· by Jerry Corstens · 17 Mar, 2015
Trust is a valuable thing. It’s the force that secures the bounds between us. It’s the spirit that makes us want to...
· by Jerry Corstens · 22 Feb, 2015
Gaining new understanding is like entering a new reality. What we previously accepted to be our world of belief will shake on...
· by Jerry Corstens · 12 Feb, 2015
Do you remember when you were a child and everything looked magical and amazing? That’s because everything was new and exciting. Our...
· by Jerry Corstens · 31 Jan, 2015
Vicious circles are sometimes just circles, but sometimes they are like snowballs becoming bigger and bigger as they roll down the slopes...
· by Jerry Corstens · 18 Jan, 2015
We have two basic needs that, when the circumstances are far from ideal, have the potential to contradict one another: the need...
· by Jerry Corstens · 16 Jan, 2015
In the old days, cultures were pretty isolated from each other. They had their own geographical location, and with it room to...
· by Jerry Corstens · 13 Jan, 2015
There is a blind spot in our perception. We easily see what others do to us, but we seldom see what we...
· by Jerry Corstens · 7 Jan, 2015
Solutions are often counterintuitive. When we experience a problem, the first thing we do is complain about it. Maybe not by expressing...
· by Jerry Corstens · 14 Dec, 2014
On a psychological level we’re all constantly in a dance with one another. When one takes a step forwards, the other automatically...
· by Jerry Corstens · 8 Dec, 2014
Sometimes it seems as if we’re giving too much love, that all the love we give doesn’t seem to be enough or...
· by Jerry Corstens · 2 Oct, 2014
Under undistorted circumstances, helping someone brings its own rewards. That reward being feeling good about yourself. This inner bonus is part of...
· by Jerry Corstens · 17 Sep, 2014
We all form behavioral patterns based on our personal situation and history. In a way they develop to make life easier for...
· by Jerry Corstens · 15 Aug, 2014
When we run away from something we often get lost. Whether it’s an unwanted situation, convictions that no longer make sense or...
· by Jerry Corstens · 14 Jul, 2014
At any moment in time there are two doors standing before you to choose from. One door leads to a room with...
· by Jerry Corstens · 13 Jun, 2014
Change is often hard. Especially when it concerns real and lasting change; the change that requires us to let go of something...
· by Jerry Corstens · 12 May, 2014
Don’t project your fears from the past onto your current status quo. Fear has a way of carrying itself over into new...
· by Jerry Corstens · 10 Apr, 2014
Have you ever wondered about what your life would look like if you we’re born somewhere else? Or in different times? Or...